Skip navigation! Story from Sex. When did you last try a new sex position? Whether or not you're in a relationship , it's all too easy to fall back on a handful of tried-and-tested moves and forget the delicious variety available to you and your partner. That's where Clare Cavanah and Rachel Venning come in. They're not only the founders of sex toy boutique and educational hub Babeland , they're the authors of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. With insight into everything from BDSM to birth control, Moregasm is an expert yet relatable roadmap to your best-ever sex life. The book's inclusive, deftly illustrated guides to manual, oral, vaginal, and anal sex positions are our favorite part. We're thrilled to share them with you here, beginning with Cavanah and Venning's step-by-step suggestions for vaginal sex and then adding ideas for other forms of play each month.

The female Vs the male orgasm
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Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.
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Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone.
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