He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. This is the rule rather than the exception. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon.




I am not a doctor's wife so I won't say I understand, but I will give you a virtual hug. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. She won't marry you. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office. He says he has put-in a lot of his life into his profession and his career is very important to him. It's been really helpful already.
Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. This I knew before we married and accepted. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. On his days off he sleeps all day long. Once last piece of advice to you girls who are "dating" or "engaged to" a doc: Don't confuse "dating" and "engaged to" with "married to" - get the ring on your finger and seal the deal. All the other stuffв is crap. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two.
BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. Thank you so much for putting this Blog together. Why not ask him where he wants the relationship to go. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now.